After the half term week when I totally lost all sense of routine, it was back to school for the kids and catch up time for me.
My gut feel that the loss of routine is a general problem was borne out at our meeting last Monday when our three teachers also admitted that things had gone a bit pear-shaped for them. Whether it was the simple act of not drinking enough water or the opposite of drinking too much wine at various celebrations, we had all suffered.
But as ever Russell’s permanent good humour and unfailing positive approach made us all feel better about our slip ups and we vowed to improve in the coming week.
And improve we did. For myself I was able to re-instigate my morning 30 minute walk with my dog after dropping my youngest off at school. I embraced my new tool “no caffeine or sweet things” and really enjoyed drinking my herbal and redbush tea. I cut out my glass of wine with my evening meal too, although must confess to drinking two glasses of Prosecco at a party on Saturday evening in Brighton. But those two glasses were less than I would normally have imbibed at a party, so I still finished the evening feeling quite self-satisfied.
That self-satisfaction disappeared completely by Sunday morning. After a very disturbed night caring for my daughter who had a temperature of 102.8 I finally woke feeling like I’d been hit by a bus. The aftermath of those two glasses felt more like I’d drunk two bottles! Curiously my husband felt just as bad after only two half pints of beer, so maybe we’d caught my daughter’s bug. Whatever it was, we ended up cancelling Sunday lunch with my mum and stayed in bed until 3pm – something I haven’t ever done before. Son number two felt unwell too, so we were a right poorly bunch.
Come Monday I felt better although the children weren’t and my daughter’s high temperature was joined by her asthma flaring up, so she stayed home for the day along with Son Number Two whose neck was full of swollen glands. Still it was a beautiful day so I still got my half hours walk but for the first time this year it was in the sunshine instead of the rain. Even the children admitted to enjoying it!
On Monday night we had our sixth meeting up at Freedom Leisure with Russell – it’s hard to believe we’ve only got another two to go. The time really has zoomed by and we’ve really started to gel as a group. We were down to just four of us though as three are off in the Isle of Wight on school journey. Somehow I doubt they’ll be able to keep to the rules during what will be a very stressful week, but at least it seems that the weather has turned nice for them.
Those of us who made it had a variety of stories to tell. Poor Mary has been pretty unwell with a horrible tummy bug, which explained her absence last week. She told us how she has started to incorporate some of Pete’s tools into her work as a school nurse, advising children who are overweight to use the simple tools of eating slowly, stop eating when you’re not hungry anymore and drink more water. It makes such sense and hopefully will be as helpful to the children as it is to us adults. If’ only we’d learned that when young we wouldn’t be having to do the course now. I’m of the generation that was told to eat up because there were starving children in Biafra. My usual riposte that I would package up my sprouts and send them to Africa never had the effect I wanted, but the principle of having to clear my plate has stuck for forty years.
Eva has been doing incredibly well on the course and her weight loss is quite visible. What with her cycling, extra gym sessions and even a water aerobics session this week, her exercise regime has made a huge change and is a great example to us all. Her continual positivity and certainty that she will reach her goal is fabulous to see.
Julie didn’t make it last week either as her parents were visiting from Scotland, but this week she returned to regale us with stories of roast dinners cooked for her! That said, she has also visibly lost weight and finds drinking all that water very easy.
Our discussion this week covered so many topics but at the forefront was alcohol – why we drink it, why we like it and what damage it can do. We all had personal experiences of loved ones with alcohol problems and it does seem amazing that the government spends so much money on anti-smoking activity and legislation but seems to do nothing about the alcohol problem which probably causes more social and economic costs than anything.
Mary said that the official figure is that 92% of fights resulting in hospitalization are alcohol related or exacerbated. Smokers might give themselves lung cancer but they don’t beat up people on the streets or abuse hospital staff whilst they are wrecking their livers. We all felt that alcohol has just got too cheap and discounting it at supermarkets should not be allowed.
After our “let’s change the world” discussion, it was down to the studio for another of Russell’s torture exercise sessions! Last week he changed things around and toughened things up considerably – in fact I couldn’t walk properly for a couple of days afterwards. This week was no different.
We had eight stations on the circuit, all of them involving both legs and arms, and this time had to do 60 seconds at each of them. We then had a short break and did the whole thing again. The hardest station for me was the step – I have short legs so going up 5 levels was really hard. I was absolutely exhausted afterwards – after two broken nights’ sleep my energy levels were already pretty depleted but that emptied them. We all felt the same I think – but on a positive note recognised that we wouldn’t have been able to do one circuit at that intensity five weeks ago, let alone the two circuits we all managed.
On the way back to the car my knees kept giving way! But I had a nice relaxing bath when I got home so at least I’m not crippled today. And today the sun is shining again – that always makes me feel better.
So I now need to take myself in hand and be a lot stricter in terms of cutting out the sugary foods and keeping my alcohol intake down, especially after all that preaching earlier. That, combined with the exercise and extra fluid, will make a huge difference and I now have a new, more immediate goal ahead of me – my husband and I will celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary in April and I’ve planned a big party. It’s a great excuse for a lovely new dress and I intend for that dress to be at least two sizes smaller than it would have been this time last year! So, I’ve got my work cut out for me. Onward and Upwards!